Back to work I go....

Spring Break 2008 is officially over! I'm a little saddened about having to go back to real world tomorrow morning. All in all I thoroughly enjoyed my 10-day vacation and pretty much accomplished all that I set out to do. Here are some of the highlights:

Meeting the future in-laws: Well, as I stated in an earlier post, I met Kevin's family at the beginning of my break. It was a pleasant trip seeing as though I don't typically do car rides. We made great time and he gets a gold star for driving like he had good sense. He really is a good driver...I simply have my issues. His family is wonderful and I can't wait to go back to visit them as well as have them here. I enjoyed seeing the various parts of Virginia as it related to Kevin's life. He did a great job giving me a tour of the area. I really want to go back when the weather is really nice so that we can fully take in the downtown Norfolk area at night.

Sleep: I can honestly say that I got a lot of sleep during this break! I probably got more than what I originally wanted. What I don't think most people know about me is that I truly keep a busy schedule. It felt so great being able to lay in the bed and not be on any one's schedule but my own. I have to admit on most of the days I felt guilty about simply doing nothing but Kevin constantly reminded me that I was on vacation so it was perfectly fine to be in the bed until 1:00pm! I even noticed that Bentley started getting up later and later! There was a time she would lick my fingers until I got up and took her out at 7:00am at the latest. Oh well, we are both in for a rude awakening (no pun intended) tomorrow morning when it's back to 5:45am!

Taste of New Orleans: It was a great success again this year. I was only able to take 4 girls this year but I must say that they had a good time and I did as well. I did however come to the conclusion that I would like to attend this event in the future without students so that I am able to fully enjoy myself as an adult among other adults! Don't get me wrong because the overall purpose of me taking students to these types of events is to give them the exposure. I would just like to go in order to fully mix and mingle with people my age as well as network. It was still a good time had by all.

...Now I got my DRAMA shot!

In a perfect world all would be well with everyone at every single moment of the day. Again I repeat....in a perfect world all would be well with everyone at every single moment of the day. It's unfortunate that we don't live in a perfect world therefore we are not immune to the unnecessary, unwarranted, childish drama in the world! The cool part is that even though we don't live in a perfect world, we do have the choice to acknowledge, address, or ignore it.

***The following is a message for someone in particular***
It's very unfortunate that the events unfolded as they did on yesterday. As I stated above, I have a choice as to whether I acknowledge, address, or ignore it. At this moment I'm choosing to ignore it until I gather my thoughts and emotions together in order to properly address it.

In the meantime, let me get my shot.....

Meet the Parents!

This past weekend was a real treat for me as I travelled to Virginia to meet Kevin's family. We planned this trip a few weeks in advance so everyone was fully aware of my arrival. This was the first time that Kevin and I had travelled out of the state together and a first for me period to be "taken home to meet the parents". We left late Friday night because Kevin had to work plus it is a little better travelling at night.

We arrived in Chesapeake, VA around 12:45 am and decided to visit Kevin's twin, Keith. I was so excited but at the same time a little nervous to meet Keith. Kevin had told me quite a bit about his twin however it did not fully prepare me for him! They are twins indeed when it comes to appearance and mannerisms however outside of that they are perfect strangers! Keith is very smart and funny. He definitely believes in telling it like it is and keeping it real. We met Kevin's nephew and I really enjoyed playing with him. He is a little ball of energy! He's a cute little boy and he's funny too!

We finally made it to the Reese residence around 2:15ish am. Needless to say we were both quite tired. Mr. Reese heard us stirring around and got up to meet me. He is a very nice man...very friendly and warm. It was neat seeing Kevin get all giddy and happy to be home. After a few minutes of catching up we all headed to bed. We woke up the next morning to chatter in the kitchen. Kevin's aunt had stopped by (I'm thinking to see me, of course!) and everyone was enjoying coffee. I was able to finally meet Kevin's mother and his aunt. They were both very sweet and welcoming as well.

Kevin went to the car and got the plant that I purchased for his mother and our scrapbook. His aunt was the first to actually look at it. Well, as she is looking at the book I am busy talking to everyone else. All of a sudden his aunt jumps out of her chair and wipes her eyes and gives me the biggest hug! She says, "thanks for making my nephew so happy!" I almost lost it!!! That was so sweet!

We all went out to dinner later that night and really had a great time. Afterwards, all the "kids" went to the movies to the new Tyler Perry movie while Kevin's parents took Kevin's nephew home. I really had a great time with the family. It was so comfortable and easy! I can't wait to go back and visit them. Oh, I almost forgot...I had the pleasure of meeting Kevin's grandfather, Robert.

While in Virginia we were able to do some tourist stuff. Kevin took me downtown Norfolk and showed me around. All in all, I have to say it was a wonderful time and I am so happy that I like them and they like me as well. I am now even more excited about my relationship with Kevin.

Every day gets better and better...

So yesterday when I arrived home from work I received a wonderful surprise. I clearly knew something was up because as I talked to Kevin throughout the day he did a poor job hiding the fact that he was up to something! What he didn't know what that I had already sensed something was up and figured that I would stop off and pick up his favorite beer and some wine coolers for me, to add to whatever he had up his sleeve!


Well, I get out of the car and is juggling my bags, work bag, lunch bag, and purse only to discover that the storm door is locked!! My initial reaction was to get a little agitated but I knew that clearly he was up to something so I didn't want to mess up his plans. He comes to the door and I hear the music playing in the background. He takes everything out of my hands and tells me to stay put. Well, anyone who knows me clearly knows that I don't really follow directions well! Again, knowing that he took time out to plan something nice, I obeyed his command (never thought I would hear myself say that!!).


He proceeded to remove my glasses and placed a blindfold on me. I was led to my bedroom then to the bathroom where a nice hot bubble bath was waiting for me. I was totally caught off guard because it was so perfect and nicely orchestrated. He had candles going and soft music...everything to make my afternoon bath perfect! While I enjoyed my bath he finished preparing dinner. We enjoyed our dinner of chicken kabobs, green beans, broccoli, and a nice garden salad. Afterwards we took Bentley for a nice walk.

I have to say I was thoroughly surprised and pleased with my afternoon surprise. It's not everyday you meet someone who is so considerate and caring. I have to admit that with Kevin every day gets better and better!

I think I have it...

Ok, so I've spent the past few hours trying to figure which layout I like. I think for now I am settling on this. I have to admit that I'm quite excited about the is new adventure of blogging. I blogged a little on Myspace however I found myself being really mindful of things I posted because most of my friends were students from the school I work in. My initial reason for even creating my Myspace page was to be able to monitor the pages of students in my program, D.I.V.A.S.

Anyway, I'm excited about this new space to blog because I am really wanting to chronicle the stages of my new relationship. I met Kevin back in December and I can honestly say the past few months have been life changing to say the least. He is an awesome person and every moment we spend together is one filled with laughter and love. He has been a great addition to my life. We are moving into the 3rd month of our relationship. In the past few months, he has taught me that it's ok to have fun throughout the year instead of reserving it to the 2.5 months I'm out of work during the summer! He has also demonstrated to me that having a prayer life isn't something that is out of reach. He keeps me grounded and level headed. All of my friends are quite thankful for the changes he has made in my life because I'm no longer this serious, all business and no play individual. I've learned to relax, live, and let God do His thing!

I truly think I have it!

Not a virgin anymore...

So, I've decided to the plunge and actually create a blog. I actually got this idea from my friend Tomika. I have enjoyed reading her posts and was quite shocked to learn that she had been doing this for several years. I think that for me it will offer an outlet to simply express my thoughts and feelings as well as chronicle some of the crazy things that only happen to me!

Trust me when I say this...my life is never boring! There is always some crazy mishap or situation that always lends itself to funny story for me to share.